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The weight of being the eldest
This is with reference to the article “The weight of being the eldest” by Shahmeer Asif (YW, October 18). It was a commendable write-up. I’d like to share my experience of being the eldest too.
When my mother scolds my younger siblings, they point at me and say, “We learnt from our elder,” so the eldest child is often held responsible for mistakes that happened long ago.
My younger sister sometimes sympathises with me and says, “Where did you learn basic survival skills from? I have you as a role model, but you didn’t have anyone.” It makes me realise that the eldest really do learn everything on their own, without having someone to follow.
Mahnoor Ilyas,
Karachi
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Shahmeer Asif’s expressions in the article “The weight of being the eldest” were impressive and thought-provoking. The eldest child go through a lot without others realising it.
I also realised that we often get frustrated because we have no one to look up to. We learn everything on our own, without anyone ahead of us to follow. I hope this article will be a reminder to parents and youngsters to see their eldest child or sibling as someone who also needs support and love.
Saim Ali,
Lahore
Safe sanitation for everyone
This is regarding the article “Safe sanitation for everyone” by Benazir Raz (YW, November 15). It was a very informative article and I believe articles like this are much needed.
Many homes, especially in rural areas, still lack proper toilets. People often go out in the open for defecation, or they use makeshift toilets on their rooftops. It is unhygienic and unsafe. Women, in particular, face the difficulty of having to wait until night-time.
Good hygiene practices, such as washing hands before and after using the toilet, are also essential for maintaining safe sanitation. We should be grateful that most of us have access to not only clean water, but also proper toilets whenever we need them.
Dr M. Qudrat-e-Khuda,
Karachi
Shattered dreams
This is regarding the story “Shattered dreams” by Ayesha A. Ahmed (YW, October 11). We plan many things, they bring excitement and make us feel as if everything will fall into place at the right time.
However, sometimes things go beyond our control, and that teaches us to accept the flow of life. Everything happens at it’s right time. Instead of wasting our energy, we should learn to wait for the moments that are meant for us.
Abdul Ali Laghari,
Sanghar
Published in Dawn, Young World, December 6th, 2025
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Story time : What steals our joy
It was Friday when the teacher announced a test that would be held on Monday. Bisma made sure she studied and learnt everything for it.
On Monday, the teacher handed out the test sheets. Bisma, along with the rest of the class, completed the test. Most students felt optimistic about their results. However, Bisma was a bit overconfident.
The next day, when the marked test papers came back, Bisma was happy to see she had scored 17 out of 20, until she heard that one of her classmates had scored 19.
This made Bisma feel a bit uneasy. She had thought she was the topper, but hearing someone else had scored higher took away her joy. She began to doubt herself and her abilities, thinking she hadn’t worked hard enough or wasn’t good enough.
Days passed, but the thought continued to bother her. A few days later, the school announced a speech competition. Despite her insecurities, Bisma prepared for it. On the day of the competition, when her name was called, she went on stage and delivered her speech. But as she came down, she didn’t feel satisfied. Her unease grew as she listened to other students’ speeches. She began finding non-existent flaws in her own performance, thinking her accent wasn’t perfect and her pronunciation wasn’t good enough.
After the competition, there was a snack break. Bisma took her lunch, sat down, and started eating half-heartedly.
Zehra, her friend, noticed the sad look on her face, walked up to her, and asked with concern, “Hey Bisma, what’s up? You look sad. Is everything okay?”
Bisma snapped out of her thoughts and tried to smile bravely. “Yeah, everything’s okay.”
“Are you sure? You know you can share anything with me,” Zehra said gently.
Bisma sighed. “I feel like a failure.”
“What!? Why?” Zehra asked, surprised.
“Because every time I do something, I never seem to get it right. I don’t know why. I try so hard, but still, I always mess something up while others do so much better. Like that test — I studied so hard for it, but I only got 17 marks while others got 19. And that speech today? It was a complete disaster! Others were far better than me,” Bisma bemoaned.
Zehra patiently listened and then said, “Bisma, I think you did a great job in that speech. And about that test, you worked so hard and got good marks. Don’t you remember that all our other classmates, including me, got marks below 15? What you’re doing right now is comparing yourself to others. Haven’t you heard that famous quote, ‘Comparison is the thief of joy’?”
Bisma frowned a little. “Umm… no, I don’t think so.”
Zehra smiled. “It means that when you compare yourself to others, it ruins your happiness and makes you doubt your own hard work. The only person you should compare yourself with is your past self. Tell me, did you deliver this speech better than your last one?”
Bisma thought for a moment and said, “Yes.”
“Exactly,” said Zehra. “You shouldn’t compare yourself to others but to yourself. If you did better, be proud of yourself. And if you didn’t, don’t be too hard on yourself — just try to do better next time.”
Bisma listened to her friend and understood her mistake. Gradually, she started feeling proud of her small achievements, and that helped her become genuinely happy for others.
Published in Dawn, Young World, December 13th, 2025
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Cook-it-yourself : Mug chocolate dream cake
Chocolate is amongst the richest and most decadent ingredients around. It can be found in all sorts of baked goods, and ranges from smooth, creamy milk chocolate to bittersweet dark chocolate.
But what if you don’t have the time to concoct a complex dessert? Luckily for you, this recipe requires only a microwave and a few pantry staples to be served.
With the dream cake trend, you might have wondered if there was an easier way to enjoy it, in the comfort of your home. Well, find out with this easy-to-follow recipe, which takes minutes.
This single-serve treat will meet all your chocolate cravings, combining a soft, fluffy sponge layer with a hard chocolate top to give the perfect balance of textures.
Ingredients
For the cake:
8 chocolate biscuits
50ml warm milk
1/4 tsp baking soda
For the ganache:
50g chocolate
50ml warm milk
Method
In a greased, microwave-safe ramekin, crush biscuits. Add milk and baking soda and stir.
Microwave on low for 90-120 seconds or until a skewer inserted in the centre comes out clean. In another bowl, melt the chocolate using the microwave.
Add milk and stir continuously until your desired consistency is reached.
Pour the chocolate ganache over the cooled cake.
Drizzle melted chocolate on top and freeze for 2-3 minutes or until the chocolate is set.
Finally, crack the top and enjoy! n
Published in Dawn, Young World, December 13th, 2025
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