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THE RUPTURE IN THE WESTERN WORLD ORDER
“This bargain no longer works. Let me be direct. We are in the midst of a rupture, not a transition… You cannot live within the lie of mutual benefit through integration, when integration becomes the source of your subordination.”
— Mark Carney, Prime Minister of Canada, at Davos 2026
“After the war, we gave Greenland back to Denmark. How stupid were we to do that? But we did it, but we gave it back. But how ungrateful are they now? And then after the war, which we won, we won it big — without us, right now, you’d all be speaking German and a little Japanese, perhaps.”
— Donald Trump, US President, at Davos 2026
“If anyone thinks that the European Union, or Europe as a whole, can defend itself without the US, keep on dreaming. You can’t. We can’t.”
— Mark Rutte, Secretary-General Nato, speaking at EU Parliament
Canada’s Prime Minister Mark Carney went to the World Economic Forum at Davos and told the world that his country — by extrapolation, all US allies — had lived a “pleasant fiction” that is now over. That fiction was grounded in the assumption that the United States would continue to lead a global order and that such order would perpetually guarantee stability, provide limitless liquidity, and manage all systemic risks. Under this global order, American hegemony would continue to “provide public goods, open sea lanes, a stable financial system, collective security and support for frameworks for resolving disputes.” This does not obtain anymore.
For decades, America’s Western allies lived comfortably with a system in which the US was the
accepted hegemon and which benefitted them as its satraps. That system is now unravelling
because of the brazenness and boorishness of US President Donald Trump and because the
allies are now being treated like others were always treated in the Global South. For the first time, Canada and Europe are being forced to confront the fact that power creates its own dynamics…
This is where the irony lies. For Carney, as also other US allies, US hegemony worked and made them prosper as long as its application of force targeted states and societies in what we loosely describe as the Global South: Latin America, Africa, the Middle East, to name just the most obvious regions. These are also the regions where a number of states or leaders within those states decided to remove the signboard, to not live the lie that Canada was so content to live with until recently and acquiesced in.
Those leaders were picked off — the list is long from Mohamed Mosaddegh to Patrice Lumumba to Ngo Din Diem to Salvador Allende to hundreds of failed attempts on Fidel Castro — those states suffered and most, like Iran, continue to suffer. The system’s power did not come from its truth, but from Canada’s willingness, as also of other US allies, to perform as if it were true. Now, “its fragility comes from the same source”, as identified by Carney.
I argue that the challenge faced by the US allies is not that the United States has suddenly become more of a hegemon. The entire post-WWII system was grounded in unequal power distribution and accepted hegemony of the US by its allies. The fiction Carney spoke about was (and remains) an elaborate mise en scène, put together not just by the US but also its allies. In fact, as we shall discuss later, the centrality of a dominant power is the core tenet of an integrated alliance system that must also have a unifying perception of threat and shared values.
Carney’s assertion that “when we only negotiate bilaterally with a hegemon, we negotiate from weakness”, and his invocation of Thucydides’ Melian Dialogue are, therefore, about the direction of the exercise of US hegemony, not hegemony itself. What is true, however, is the fact and Carney’s realisation of it, that a hegemon’s intent can change. That is what has happened.
To that end, I propose to briefly look at how the North Atlantic Treaty Organisation (Nato) came about and what exactly is the Greenland issue about. Finally, I argue that, while this moment may not be a Wagnerian frenzy, it could lead to that in the years to come, quite possibly unravelling Europe, which is not a single, seamless entity but a conglomeration of multiple states and ethnolinguistic groupings.
EUROPE, AMERICA AND NATO: FROM RELUCTANCE TO PRIMACY
What follows is based on a number of works, including those by US international affairs academic Lawrence Kaplan, Canadian diplomat Escott Reid and US historian Melvyn Leffler and several declassified documents from the Foreign Relations of the United States (FRUS) volumes.
Today, Nato is taken for granted. But the idea and its actualisation did not evolve as a premeditated American design. It emerged from European insecurity, economic and military, and involved a drawn-out and complex diplomatic process. The US was still grappling with its new global role and was reluctant to get involved in Europe’s affairs again. The Joint Chiefs of Staff and National Policy Volume II 1947-1949 by military historian Kenneth Condit makes clear that post-war demobilisation had left the US military (all branches) starved of manpower and materiel.
A good example of such pressures was the crisis in Greece (Civil War 1946-49) and the decision by Britain to withdraw its troops from there in 1947. The US wanted the British to keep the troops in Greece, even as the JCS’s own study had concluded that “the United States was not capable of deploying sufficient armed forces to Greece to defeat a combined attack by Yugoslavia, Albania and Bulgaria. Any US force sent should therefore be small. It should be solely for the purposes of stiffening morale of the Greeks and of contributing to stability in areas where it was stationed.”
The details are too many and complicated. The essential point, however, is that the period from December 1947 to March 1948 marked the critical point where the idea of a transatlantic military pact moved from a British proposal to an accepted, if still vague, American objective.
On December 17, 1947, British foreign secretary Ernest Bevin made a case to the US Secretary of State George Marshall for a “Western Union.” Bevin’s concept, which he described as a “spiritual federation of the West”, encompassed Western European nations, the British dominions and, crucially, the United States. This entity would be “an understanding backed by power, money and resolute action”, with its essential task being to create a “feeling of security” and the confidence that “further communist inroads [into Eastern Europe] would be stopped.” The US presence in the Union would provide Europe the confidence to resist the Soviet political threat.
While agreeing with the general idea and its importance, Marshall struck a cautious tone. He believed the union should be purely European, with the US providing only material assistance. He refused to approve any specific course of action or make public promises. This was in line with the Truman administration’s reluctance to undertake formal military commitments despite the March 1947 Truman Doctrine, which pledged American political, military and economic aid to democratic nations under threat from authoritarian (specifically communist) forces.
Bevin elaborated his proposal in a formal paper in January 1948. He argued for a union, formal or informal, that included Scandinavia, the Low Countries, France, Italy, Greece, Portugal and, eventually, Spain and Germany. As a first step, he proposed expanding the 1947 Dunkirk Treaty — a bilateral Anglo-French pact solely against future German aggression — into a treaty with the Benelux countries. This “solid core” could then expand into the full Western Union. Bevin’s proposals at this stage were far ahead of American thinking. Marshall or his aides had not seriously considered a military alliance with the Europeans, despite the emerging Soviet threat.
The British initiative did spark a debate within the US State Department. Two distinct camps emerged. One comprised the sceptics, led by Marshall, Under Secretary Robert Lovett and George Kennan, head of the Policy Planning Staff and the writer of the famous ‘Long Telegram’ and the ‘X Article’, which analysed Soviet ideology and advocated containment. Kennan welcomed the idea of a European union under Franco-British leadership, believing it could restore the balance of power.
However, he opposed direct US military commitment, arguing that a military pact should flow from political and economic union, not precede it. He also warned that using the anti-German Dunkirk Treaty as a model was “a poor way” to prepare for Germany’s eventual inclusion. Like Marshall, Kennan insisted the initiative and hard work must come from Europe itself. When that happened, the US could then offer support.
The other camp had advocates of an Atlantic pact, primarily John D. Hickerson, director of the Office of European Affairs, and his deputy Theodore Achilles. Hickerson agreed the Dunkirk model was flawed but argued that a European union backed only by US aid would be insufficient. He believed only a direct American moral commitment — a promise to fight if necessary — could generate the “confidence and energy” needed to restore a stable, solvent Europe. He proposed modelling a new pact on the Inter-American Treaty of Reciprocal Assistance (the Rio Treaty), which would be linked to the UN Charter. This “Atlantic security system” would explicitly include the US and Canada alongside the Western European states.
Initially, the sceptics held sway. On January 20, 1948, Marshall informed the British ambassador that the US welcomed Bevin’s initiative and would assist it “to the fullest” but would not be a part of it. This marginalised Hickerson and Achilles. Marshall’s position was rooted in several powerful strands of opposition within the US government, the Congress and the military. From a strategic perspective, Kennan et al viewed the Soviet threat in early 1948 as primarily politico-economic, not military. The preferred instrument to counter the Soviets was the European Recovery Program (ERP, or Marshall Plan).
They feared that a sudden push for a military alliance could jeopardise Congressional approval of this vital economic aid package. They were also hedging politically and anticipated resistance from three quarters: traditional isolationists who opposed entangling alliances because they drained US resources; internationalists who saw such a pact as undermining the United Nations; and the military establishment, which did not have the capacity for unsustainable commitments and wanted to withdraw troops from an indefensible Western Europe. Secretary of Defence James Forrestal warned of the danger of letting military commitments outpace capabilities.
Faced with American reluctance, Bevin and French foreign minister Georges Bidault decided Europe must take the first step, hoping to ‘lure’ the US in later. On March 17, 1948, Britain, France and the Benelux countries signed the Brussels Treaty, establishing the Western Union. This coincided with a shift in American opinion, catalysed by an escalation of Cold War tensions in February and March 1948.
The Soviet-backed communist coup in Czechoslovakia in February, combined with Soviet pressure on Finland and Norway and intensified communist agitation in Italy and France, ignited a palpable ‘war-scare’ in Washington. This climate of crisis helped remove key barriers to American action. While US leaders still did not believe that war was imminent, they now concluded that economic aid alone was insufficient to provide the psychological stability needed for recovery. Only a US security guarantee could create the necessary confidence to resist Soviet political subversion.
On March 11, Bevin formally invited the US to discuss a North Atlantic treaty. The following day, Marshall agreed to proceed with joint talks on an “Atlantic security system.” In a speech to Congress on March 17, the very day the Brussels Treaty was signed, President Truman endorsed the pact and pledged that the US would “extend to the free nations the support that the situation requires.”
By late March 1948, the fundamental US position on a transatlantic security pact had reversed. The objective was now to design a form of military commitment to Europe. The consensus purpose was not to prepare for a likely Soviet invasion, but to “strengthen the determination of the free nations to resist… Soviet-directed world Communism” and “increase their confidence.”
The commitment would serve as a psychological and political stabiliser to ensure the success of the Marshall Plan. The remaining debates were to be worked out in the subsequent Pentagon Talks. The path to Nato had opened up, forged by European fear, British diplomacy, and an American realisation that economic power required a security complement to be effective in the upcoming Cold War.
But there was something else too. If this were to work, the alliance needed a dominant state. That state was to be the US. The path was also cleared from reluctance to configuring Nato with the US at the apex.
Despite belonging to different theoretical schools, John Mearsheimer, John Ikenberry and Melvyn Leffler converge on this point: US hegemony in Nato was not an accidental outcome but a logical result of the alliance’s foundational conditions and strategic purpose. Once committed, the US used its unmatched power to shape Nato’s institutions in ways that locked in its leadership, ensuring the alliance would remain an extension of American grand strategy, while providing Europe with indispensable security.
This ‘bargain’ — European subordination to and participation in the American-led financial and security architecture for American protection — was the stable, if unequal, core of the transatlantic relationship for decades. The post-Cold War evolution — with Nato expanding eastward under continued US impetus, and recent developments about Nato’s future and the US role — further demonstrate the nature and extent of this configured hegemony.
This structural imperative (predominance of US power — economic, industrial, human resource, military, technological) was wedded to Nato’s strategic logic and influenced Nato’s institutional design both politically and operationally. The Europeans, since the end of the Cold War — the so-called peace dividend — have become niche auxiliaries. Budgets were slashed, conscription abolished, personnel reduced. It has been the same story regarding capabilities and inventories.
This is precisely what Trump began talking about in his first term. While the Russo-Ukraine War and slacking US commitment to Europe have forced a rethink, it will take at least a decade-and-half’s sustained effort for Europe to develop the strategic capabilities for which they entirely rely on the US. This is the reason Mark Rutte bluntly told the EU parliamentarians that Europe can’t defend itself without the US.
We shall return to this issue of US hegemony but let’s first get to Greenland.
GREENLAND, JUST TRUMP’S OBSESSION?
Short answer, no. Let’s go for the longish answer. The US has a history with Greenland. In recent years, melting Arctic glaciers and warming waters, as also Russia and China’s interest in the Arctic waterways, have revived the conversation among US policymakers. But it’s also the geography.
As Marc Jacobsen, an associate professor at the Royal Danish Defence College, told the BBC, “If Russia were to send missiles towards the US, the shortest route for nuclear weapons would be via the North Pole and Greenland. That’s why the Pituffik [pronounced bee-doo-feek] Space Base is immensely important in defending the US.”
When Nazi forces occupied Denmark during World War II, the US invaded Greenland and established military and listening posts on the island. The Danish Ambassador to the US during World War II was Henrik Kauffmann, a pivotal figure who, after Germany occupied Denmark in 1940, acted independently as the representative of “Free Denmark” and signed crucial defence agreements for Greenland with the US. On April 9, 1941, he signed an agreement with the US allowing American military bases in Greenland, a critical move to prevent German seizure of the island.
After the war, the US expanded the Pittufik Space Base, formerly known as Thule Air Base. A 1951 defence agreement with Denmark also granted the US a significant role in the defence of the territory, including the right to build and maintain military bases.
But before the 1951 agreement, in 1946, the US expressed the desire to purchase Greenland from Denmark for a sum of $100 million in gold bars. US officials at the time described the interest in Greenland as a “military necessity”, precisely the language used by Trump when he suddenly mentioned Greenland.
The 1946 offer remained classified until documents were declassified in 1991. But it wasn’t the first time the US had shown interest in Greenland, though. US Secretary of State William Seward raised the idea of annexing it along with Iceland in 1867. Seward had earlier purchased Alaska from Russia in March of the same year. Trump himself talked about buying Greenland in 2019. A Wall Street Journal report at the time revealed the plan. All these offers have been rebuffed by Denmark.
In January this year, Trump stated that “the fact that they [Danes] had a boat land there 500 years ago [sic] doesn’t mean that they own the land.” So what’s the legal status of Greenland?
The 1933 Eastern Greenland Case before the Permanent Court of International Justice (PCIJ) centred on a sovereignty dispute between Denmark and Norway. In 1931, Norway occupied and claimed a portion of Eastern Greenland, arguing it was terra nullius [unowned land] outside Danish control. Denmark countered that its sovereignty historically extended over all of Greenland, supported by continuous and peaceful displays of authority, such as a trade monopoly and granting of concessions. A key diplomatic point was the 1919 Ihlen Declaration, where Norway’s foreign minister had informally assured Denmark that Norway would not challenge Danish sovereignty over Greenland.
The PCIJ ruled 12-2 in favour of Denmark by arguing that Denmark had demonstrated sufficient intention and exercise of sovereignty to claim title over all of Greenland. The Court also held that Norway was bound by the Ihlen Declaration and thus obligated not to contest Danish sovereignty or occupy any part of Greenland.
The case remains a significant precedent in international law, particularly regarding territorial acquisition, the binding nature of unilateral declarations by state officials, and the requirements for effective occupation even in sparsely populated areas (contrast this with Occupied Palestine). That said, the ruling was a product of a colonial era.
Today, the right to self-determination of Indigenous peoples, such as the Inuit of Greenland, would be a central consideration, fundamentally altering the legal context for such disputes. In essence, this means, legally speaking, that any decision about Greenland must come from the Greenlanders and no one else. They have already rebuffed Trump’s desire to take control of the island.
But the issue for our purpose is different. Just to recap, my argument is that US hegemony was built into the post-WWII alliance system. So what was the fiction?
THE PREDICTABLE FICTION
US allies, including Canada, were perfectly fine with the yarn woven by a benign hegemon. As Carney himself noted, it was a predictable system, despite being fictitious. But no one cared because it allowed Canada and Europe to play along, act bigger than they were and are, get prosperous and be protected. For the US too, it was a win-win. Nato is a force multiplier for the US military power and it also provides legitimacy to American power projection.
As noted above, the Europeans bring niche capabilities and diplomatic support. Freedom from bearing the full cost of defence, they could focus on economic growth and industrialisation and punched above their weight because of the US backing. In that, they were and are also willing partners in bullying states the US wants to sanction and beat up.
Like the child in Ursula Le Guin’s story, The Ones Who Walk Away from Omelas, the town’s (read US allies’) happiness requires the child’s misery. In the real world, that child can be found in many parts of the world: occupied Palestine, Syria, Lebanon, Libya, Iraq, Iran, Venezuela… the list is long.
To be precise, Carney et al don’t want to walk away from Omelas. They aren’t particularly concerned about the misery of the child in the basement of a building. Or to use Carney’s invocation of Vaclav Havel’s green grocer, they don’t want to remove the sign.
In the Q&A at Davos after his speech, Carney was far more circumspect, especially when asked about Greenland and Nato. Their concern is how ‘Daddy’ is behaving, mocking them for what the allies really are: subordinates — children who hold cushy jobs in the global US enterprise but must behave if they are to retain their houses and cars and yachts and place on the board.
Those, like Iran, who never signed up to the signboard, belong to a different story — the real, sordid one, not the pleasant fiction. None of the US allies is prepared to speak the truth on Iran — at least not for some time to come.
But something else has also happened. And that has the allies running helter-skelter. In this fiction there was (and is) one big reality: US preponderance. What if the sudden malignancy of hegemony becomes a practice? While the fiction lasted, no one thought about it.
The fact that allies were satraps was only occasionally put on overt display: Suez (Britain/France); Nixon Shock (devastating currency reserves of allies, especially Japan); Kissinger’s 1973 exhortation to allies that they subordinate their regional interests to US global leadership; 1973 oil shock; extraterritorial bullying through the Helms-Burton Act 1996; Old Europe/New Europe statements during the illegal invasion of Iraq.
With Trump, it’s more brazen and boorish. If the US is the dominant power and if allies expect it to protect them, why can’t it make some demands? Oh, there’s a bit of a problem. It’s called a rules-based order. Really, thinks Trump. Didn’t I just abduct a head of state? What are these Europeans talking about. They were fine with it.
Wait, the rules-based part of the fiction had some reality within the camp. You didn’t pee inside the tent. Now the camp is being treated the same way as others. That sucks. Even if Trump were to be an aberration 2.0, the historical rule has been established. Power creates its own dynamics.
That’s the rupture Carney has pointed to. The question is, can Canada, in collaboration with Europe, develop an alternative power pole? Contiguity works against Canada; distance works against Europe. Trump is not the only thing happening to Europe. There are other strands and pressures within Europe that will likely determine Europe’s future and whether and for how long one could use a collective noun for Europe.
In October 2022, during the inauguration of the European Diplomatic Academy in Bruges, Josep Borrell, EU’s High Representative for Foreign Affairs and Security Policy stated: “Europe is a garden. Most of the rest of the world is a jungle and the jungle could invade the garden.” It’s kind of ironic!
The serpent is already in the garden and going by the Book of Genesis, he is an irrevocable part of the story of Man.
The writer is a journalist interested in security and foreign policies. X: @ejazhaider
Published in Dawn, EOS, February 8th, 2026
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SMOKERS’ CORNER: MONSTERS AND THEIR BLOWBACK
Pakistan serves as a pre-eminent case study of a state creating a ‘Frankenstein’s monster’ by funding and facilitating proxies to destabilise a neighbour. Throughout the 1980s, acting at the behest of the United States and Saudi Arabia, the Pakistani state recruited, trained and armed various Islamist Afghan groups to combat Soviet forces occupying Afghanistan.
Once the Soviet forces withdrew in 1989, the victorious proxies failed to reach an amicable power-sharing agreement and began fighting amongst themselves. Desperate to maintain a stake in the region, Pakistan helped mould an even more extreme force, the Taliban, who won decisive battles against rival factions to install a stringent Islamist regime by 1996 in Afghanistan.
While the Pakistani state believed it had successfully installed a government beneficial to its strategic geopolitical interests, the internal fallout of this involvement had already commenced. A decade of establishing recruitment centres where young men were indoctrinated and trained in guerrilla warfare eventually backfired.
These proxy militants turned their guns against the Pakistani state, forming groups such as the Tehreek-i-Taliban Pakistan (TTP) to demand the enforcement of Sharia law and the creation of a ‘Greater Afghanistan’ that included Pakistan’s own Pakhtun-majority areas.
From Afghan militancy in the 1980s and 1990s to the Middle East’s sectarian militias and from Africa to Balochistan, modern history is filled with states that created violent proxies, only for them to become existential threats to themselves
For the next two decades, anti-state groups comprising former proxies and their Pakistani allies unleashed waves of brutal attacks across the country. By the time the state fully grasped the devastating consequences of the strategy it had initiated in the 1980s, over 80,000 Pakistani soldiers, police personnel, politicians and civilians had been killed.
This ongoing conflict underscores a devastating strategic reversal, where proxies, once cultivated as a shield for regional interests, became an existential threat, sustained by the very forces Pakistan helped bring to power.
This is but just one example of how proxies often become a problem for their own creators, a phenomenon frequently described as ‘blowback’. History is littered with instances where short-term tactical gains through third party actors led to long-term domestic catastrophes.
In 2009, the American journalist Andrew Higgins wrote that Israel’s early, indirect encouragement of Islamist elements in the Palestinian territories as a counterweight to Yasser Arafat’s secular Palestine Liberation Organisation (PLO), contributed to the rise of Hamas, which later became Israel’s most formidable local adversary.
These cases demonstrate a recurring geopolitical truth, that when a state breathes life into a proxy, it loses the ability to control the monster’s appetite once the original mission is over. This loss of control often transforms a strategic asset into a primary security threat, as Iraq experienced following the 2003 US invasion. The initial support provided by regional powers such as Syria, Saudi Arabia and Iran to sectarian militias in Iraq eventually resulted in the birth of the Islamic State (ISIS).
In his book ISIS: A History, Lebanese-American academic Fawaz Gerges writes that many of the fighters who formed the backbone of ISIS were seasoned by years of proxy warfare, eventually turning their sights not just on Western targets, but on the regional states that had once turned a blind eye to their radicalisation.
According to British academic Dr Alex Vines, Apartheid-era South Africa funded and trained rebels in Mozambique to destabilise that country. While the rebels successfully crippled Mozambique’s infrastructure, the resulting chaos created a massive refugee crisis and a thriving black market in small arms that flooded back across South African borders, fuelling a rise in violent crime and instability that persisted long after the official conflict ended.
In his book Proxy Warfare, the British political scientist Andrew Mumford writes that the danger of creating proxies lies in the inherent paradox of attempting to outsource national security to autonomous actors, whose interests only temporarily align with those of the sponsor.
According to the American political scientist Tyrone Groh, while states often view these groups as cost-effective tools for projectable power and plausible deniability, they frequently ignore the reality that a proxy is not a precision-guided weapon but a sentient political entity with its own evolving ambitions.
As a conflict progresses, the proxy inevitably seeks to shed its dependence on its creator, often utilising the training, funding and ideological fervour it was gifted by its facilitator to pursue an independent and frequently contradictory agenda. This transforms a strategic asset into a domestic liability, a phenomenon that forces the original sponsor to expend even greater resources to contain the radicalism or violence it once actively cultivated.
Despite the overwhelming historical evidence that proxies eventually turn on their creators, the allure of low-cost, deniable warfare remains irresistible to modern states. According to Mumford, this persistence suggests that, for many governments, the immediate tactical advantages — such as bleeding a rival — outweighs the potential for long-term domestic catastrophe.
Contemporary geopolitics has seen the rise of new sponsors who have adopted these risky strategies with varying degrees of success and instability. India has frequently been accused of utilising proxy groups to maintain leverage in its complex regional environment. More recently, scholarship has examined the manner in which India is leveraging Baloch separatist groups in Pakistan to destabilise its western frontier.
The Baloch separatist Balochistan Liberation Army (BLA), as well as the Islamist TTP, have increasingly been identified by Pakistani authorities and some regional analysts as instruments of Indian strategic interest. The discourse surrounding their Indian-proxy status has intensified following significant escalations in 2025 and 2026.
Perhaps more surprisingly, the UAE has emerged as a significant sponsor of third party actors to project power far beyond its small geographic footprint. According to the conflict analyst Emadeddin Badi, during the Libyan civil war, the UAE provided extensive military support, drone strikes, and funding to Gen Khalifa Haftar’s Libyan National Army (LNA).
According to the researcher Peter Salisbury, in Yemen, the UAE trained and equipped the Southern Transitional Council (STC), a separatist militia that eventually staged military takeovers of key governorates, often clashing with the interests of the UAE’s own coalition partner, Saudi Arabia. UAE has also faced international scrutiny for its alleged role in fuelling the civil war in Sudan by supplying the Rapid Support Forces (RSF) with weapons and logistics, a strategy that has contributed to a massive humanitarian crisis and a surge in regional instability.
According to Groh, the continued reliance on this strategy by states confirms a grim geopolitical truth: the “Frankenstein” lesson is often ignored in favour of immediate strategic depth.
Even as nations witness blowback around the world, the temptation to use proxies as a ‘surgical’ tool for regional dominance remains a primary feature of modern statecraft, despite the near-certainty of future complications.
Published in Dawn, EOS, February 8th, 2026
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ADVICE: AUNTIE AGNI
Dear Auntie,
I am 18 years old and my family is forcing me to quit my studies and help my father in the family business. This has left me depressed. I want to become an engineer and I am currently preparing for the engineering college admission test (ECAT). My dream is to get admission in COMSATS University Islamabad.
But my family is demotivating me, saying I will not get admission in any university and that I should just join our family business. I have argued with them about it so many times but I can’t win.
Dreaming Under Pressure
‘My Parents Want Me To Give Up On My Dreams’
Dear Dreaming Under Pressure,
What your family is doing obviously feels suffocating to you. The thing is that when the people who you expect will always back you (ie family) start predicting that you will fail, it can mess with your head. You can start doubting your own dreams and capabilities. However, that only means that you are human.
But you are not alone. Being pressured to join a family business is common, as is having your ambition trivialised or dismissed. However, despite facing opposition, some people still go on to become engineers… and so, that is also common.
Right now, your family is speaking from a place of fear, not facts. They are probably thinking, “What if he fails?” and they also probably think that the family business is something that is guaranteed. Whereas you are probably thinking, “What if I never try?” This last fear is the one that can end up following you for the rest of your life.
At 18, most people’s life direction gets decided. If you give up now just to avoid arguments, you won’t be at peace. You’ll likely end up feeling resentful. And simmering resentment is not good for anyone’s family business.
On the flip side, if we are being honest, shouting matches between you and your parents won’t help you win this. You cannot defeat your parents with your emotions. You need to think this through… calmly.
So, firstly, stop arguing in a dramatic way and start talking to them like someone who has thought this through. Show them the dates for your ECAT and the entry test schedules. Share college fee structures, any scholarships you want to try for and your back-up universities. Talk to your parents and tell them to give you one year in which, if you don’t get admission, you will reconsider joining the family business. Parents understand when you talk about solid plans rather than when you cry about not being able to live your dreams.
And helping out and getting involved in the family business for some time does not have to mean that you will have to leave your studies. Many people study while handling work responsibilities. It might be difficult, but it is not impossible.
You are feeling depressed because you feel trapped. The way to deal with that feeling is to take control where you can. So, start putting together daily study goals and a schedule for ECAT prep. Do practice tests. When you take action, it reduces your feelings of helplessness.
Remember that your family doubting your capabilities does not predict your future. Many engineers, doctors and professionals were told that they won’t get in. Treat those doubts as noise, not your prophecy.
You are not asking your parents for money to party and waste your life. On the contrary, you are asking for professional education, which is a legitimate request. So, approach your parents calmly and with a plan. I wish you the best of luck.
Disclaimer: If you or someone you know is in crisis and/or feeling suicidal, please go to your nearest emergency room and seek medical help immediately.
Auntie will not reply privately to any query. Please send concise queries to: auntieagni@gmail.com
Published in Dawn, EOS, February 8th, 2026
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LIFESTYLE: PUTTING A SOCK IN IT
It’s pretty normal to wear the same pair of jeans, a jumper or even a t-shirt more than once. But what about your socks? If you knew what really lived in your socks after even one day of wearing, you might just think twice about doing it.
Our feet are home to a microscopic rainforest of bacteria and fungi — typically containing up to 1,000 different bacterial and fungal species. The foot also has a more diverse range of fungi living on it than any other region of the human body. The foot skin also contains one of the highest amount of sweat glands in the human body.
Most foot bacteria and fungi prefer to live in the warm, moist areas between your toes, where they dine on the nutrients within your sweat and dead skin cells. The waste products produced by these microbes are the reason why feet, socks and shoes can become smelly.
For instance, the bacteria Staphylococcal hominis produces an alcohol from the sweat it consumes that makes a rotten onion smell. Staphylococcus epidermis, on the other hand, produces a compound that has a cheese smell. Corynebacterium, another member of the foot microbiome, creates an acid which is described as having a goat-like smell.
Can you wear the same pair of socks more than once?
The more our feet sweat, the more nutrients available for the foot’s bacteria to eat and the stronger the odour will be. As socks can trap sweat in, this creates an even more optimal environment for odour-producing bacteria. And these bacteria can survive on fabric for months. For instance, bacteria can survive on cotton for up to 90 days. So, if you re-wear unwashed socks, you’re only allowing more bacteria to grow and thrive.
The types of microbes resident in your socks don’t just include those that normally call the foot microbiome home. They also include microbes that come from the surrounding environment — such as your floors at home or in the gym or even the ground outside.
In a study which looked at the microbial content of clothing that had only been worn once, socks had the highest microbial count compared to other types of clothing. Socks had between eight to nine million bacteria per sample, while t-shirts only had around 83,000 bacteria per sample.
Species profiling of socks shows they harbour both harmless skin bacteria, as well as potential pathogens such as Aspergillus, Candida and Cryptococcus, which can cause respiratory and gut infections.
The microbes living in your socks can also transfer to any surface they come in contact with — including your shoes, bed, couch or floor. This means dirty socks could spread the fungus which causes Athlete’s foot, a contagious infection that affects the skin on and around the toes.
This is why it’s especially key that those with Athlete’s foot don’t share socks or shoes with other people, and avoid walking in just their socks or barefoot in gym locker rooms or bathrooms.
What’s living in your socks also colonises your shoes. This is why you might not want to wear the same pair of shoes for too many days in a row, so any sweat has time to fully dry between wears and to prevent further bacterial growth and odours.
Foot hygiene
To cut down on smelly feet and reduce the number of bacteria growing on your feet and in your socks, it’s a good idea to avoid wearing socks or shoes that make the feet sweat.
Washing your feet twice daily may help reduce foot odour by inhibiting bacterial growth. Foot antiperspirants can also help, as these stop the sweat — thereby inhibiting bacterial growth.
It’s also possible to buy socks which are directly antimicrobial to the foot bacteria. Antimicrobial socks, which contain heavy metals such as silver or zinc, can kill the bacteria which cause foot odour. Bamboo socks allow more air flow, which means sweat more readily evaporates — making the environment less hospitable for odour-producing bacteria.
Antimicrobial socks might therefore be exempt from the single-use rule, depending on their capacity to kill bacteria and fungi, and prevent sweat accumulation.
But for those who wear socks that are made out of cotton, wool or synthetic fibres, it’s best to only wear them once to prevent smelly feet and avoid foot infections.
It’s also important to make sure you’re washing your socks properly between uses. If your feet aren’t unusually smelly, it’s fine to wash them in warm water that’s between 30-40 degrees Celsius with a mild detergent. However, not all bacteria and fungi will be killed using this method. So to thoroughly sanitise socks, use an enzyme-containing detergent and wash at a temperature of 60 degrees Celsius. The enzymes help to detach microbes from the socks while the high temperature kills them.
If a low temperature wash is unavoidable, then ironing the socks with a hot steam iron (which can reach temperatures of up to 180-220 degrees Celsius) is more than enough to kill any residual bacteria and inactivate the spores of any fungi — including the one that causes Athlete’s foot.
Drying the socks outdoors is also a good idea, as the UV radiation in sunlight is antimicrobial to most sock bacteria and fungi.
While socks might be a commonly re-worn clothing item, as a microbiologist, I’d say it’s best you change your socks daily, to keep feet fresh and clean.
The writer is Senior Lecturer in Clinical Microbiology at the University of Leicester in the UK
Republished from The Conversation
Published in Dawn, EOS, February 8th, 2026
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